Friday, August 30, 2019

Fun and Free Friday: Nashville!

What comes to mind when you think of Nashville, Tennessee? If you’re like most people,
probably country music, honky tonks, hot chicken; and streets full of drunken tourists
and bachelorette parties. At least that’s was what flashed through my head when my
husband told me he had received a job offer he couldn’t refuse, in Nashville. The first thing
I did was consult the Google - “Is Nashville family friendly?” As a stay at home mom to
two toddlers, having access to parks and libraries, as well as activities for the entire family
are high on my list of must haves when considering where to live; and I was prepared to
put up a huge stink if Music City couldn’t deliver. To my surprise, the internet not only provided
endless examples of family friendly activities, but we also came to discover plenty during
our explorations of our new home. The following is a list of my personal favorite
(and FREE!) things to do in Nashville, as well as some that are still on my bucket list. 

Centennial Park and the Parthenon. This large green space is perfect for picnics,
and offers so many activities, all in one spot. There are splash pads and a large playground,
with a wonderful view of the Nashville Parthenon, which is an exact replica of the one in
Greece and houses a 42 foot tall statue of the goddess Athena. (Who knew, right?) 

There is a small art museum underneath the Parthenon. While there is a fee to enter
it, if you have small children there is a way to get in and see part of it for free!
Every Saturday, an organization called Kidsville holds an arts and crafts hour
that is completely free of charge. Also, the Centennial Performing Arts studio
is just south of the Parthenon and is home to the Black Box Theatre. They host
many events including “pickin’ parties” where everyone is encouraged to bring
an acoustic instrument, take a seat, and play.  

Nashville Farmers Market. Parking can be tricky during lunch hour and on weekends,
but it is free! The Farmer’s Market is composed of two large buildings - both are bright and airy,
full of exciting sights, sounds and smells. There is a wide variety of excellent food, and
lots of stalls full of local produce and art! In both buildings and the outdoor spaces, there are
courtyards and small pockets of free space where you can catch a free mini-concert.
And don’t forget to stop and  pose for a picture with the I Heart Nash sculpture.   


J. Percy Priest Reservoir/Anderson Beach.  There is a $2 parking fee but worth every penny. Picnic tables are first come first serve, plentiful, and offer picturesque views of the vast expanse of water. This was another surprise for me, as I thought we would only be seeing hills and mountains in this area. J Percy Priest offers a great escape from the city and a welcome change of scenery from all the rolling hillsides. Be sure to pack a picnic lunch, extra sunscreen, and a beach blanket or two in case all of the picnic tables are taken (it can get crazy busy here!) 


Nashville Public Library. The library has always been a favorite sanctuary for my girls,
so getting a library card was a priority when we moved. The Nashville Public Library has
a calendar full of events for every age group, all day everyday. But it’s most popular event 
begins in early September and lasts through the first week of October - Courtyard Concerts
are a series of free musical performances in the Robinson Courtyard, at the Main Library
downtown. It is free, rain or shine, from 11:45 am to 1 pm; and futures artists of every genre,
from local songwriters to world renowned performers. And of course each branch offers
classes, workshops, and story hours for the little ones.  

Tennessee State Museum. This is definitely on my bucket list. It is located next to the
Farmer’s Market, Bicentennial Park and the Capitol Building. And it is FREE - free parking
and free admission. As the name indicates, it is a museum dedicated to all things Tennessee,
and has a Children’s Gallery that offers Story Time on Thursdays and Saturdays, for
children ages 3-6; and includes a craft activity after the reading.  

  Mary’s Magical Place. This is an all inclusive playground located in Hendersonville (fourth largest city in the Nashville Metropolitan area and home to yours truly.) And it really is magical - it is a play space that was built specifically to include children of all ages and abilities. The main play area has a huge wheelchair accessible ramp, there are specialized swings for special needs children, and even a tiny jungle gym for babies. What I love about this park is that the main section is covered by giant sunshades; and the ramps and almost all of the play surfaces are composed of materials that stay cool to the touch - it makes it hard to go to any other playground!

 Nashville Symphony by The Lake. Also in Hendersonville is the Historic Rock Castle, the oldest home and privately owned property in Middle Tennessee. Each June, they host a free concert featuring the Nashville Symphony Orchestra, as one of the five locations for the Symphony’s Community Concert series. This was one of our first family outings when we first moved to the  area, and it is one of our most favorite memories of this summer. There were concession stands, but everyone was encouraged to bring their own food and beverages (alcohol is permitted.) And there were games and bounce houses to help entertain the kids before the music started. 

Nashville Murals. Music City is definitely devoted to all things music, but it is on its way to
being Mural City. Art in all forms is celebrated here and street art is becoming my new favorite.
It’s bright and colorful, it’s eye catching and exciting, and it really just dresses up the place.
Plus it is extremely helpful in keeping little people occupied during traffic jams; and it’s just so
much fun to try and find as many of them as possible. So far we have taken pictures with
“The Wings” and the Nashville Walls project, both in the Gulch neighborhood, but there are so
many more!  Currently there are several tours that you can book to help you find all of them,
but there are also maps you can print out so you can go mural hunting at your own pace. 

I have three places that are on my bucket list, that are not one hundred percent free but you
could definitely work around it and have a great time with your family, without breaking the budget! 

Gaylord Opryland Resort and Convention Center. Rooms here run from a couple hundred
dollars per night, plus additional parking fees. However, it is completely free to enter the
Opryland Resort (park your car at the adjacent Opry Mills Mall, and walk to the resort)
and explore their atriums. They have thousands of species of tropical plants, waterfalls,
and even a river that you can tour via boat. The Resort is massive and offers over 20
restaurants and bars, plus a variety of shops in addition to the Mall. And every evening
at 6 and 8 pm, there is a fountain and light show, also free of charge. The historical Grand Ole
Opry is just across the street, and offers family friendly tours and activities as well.  

Cheekwood Estate and Gardens. There is an admission and a parking fee to see this
amazing house and its 55 acres of land. A yearly membership can help offset costs and
members get free parking as well as early access to events. They have over 12 different
gardens, including a children’s garden that has different exhibits each year. This year they
had mini Storybook Houses, each representing a popular children’s book or fairy tale. The
Cheekwood Pumpkin Festival and their Christmas lights are also popular attractions
that we are looking forward to seeing! 

Frist Art Museum. The good news is children under 18 are able to go to the museum for free, just have to cover the adults! And while art museums aren’t always the best places for rambunctious little ones, Frist offers over 30 hands on experiences for the whole family - arts and crafts, painting, building, and stop animation are just a few of the fun things you can do at the museum. 
And lastly - I highly recommend taking the kids for a walk down Broadway...in broad daylight, the earlier the better, and preferably not during a sporting event. Broadway is lined with the world famous honky tonks, and while it can quickly turn inappropriate once the sun starts setting, there are several places that are very kid/family friendly. Learn to line dance, shop for cowboy boots for the whole family, and stop in front of any open doorway to hear some truly talented musicians. If you’re uncomfortable with letting your kids see everything so up close and personal, there are lots of Hop on/Hop off double decker tour buses that stop frequently up and down Music Row and continue to all the hot spots around town. Food and beverages are allowed, so bring snacks and let the little ones run amuck while you listen to the knowledgeable bus drivers tell you all about the great city of Nashville.

I Heart Nash scul

I hope this information is helpful to anyone considering a trip to Nashville but unsure of its capacity to be a family friendly city! As a transplant from the northern state of Ohio, I have experienced first hand the charm, hospitality, and particular sweetness towards children that is found all across the South, but exemplified here in Music City. I have no doubt y’all will witness it too!

Wednesday, August 28, 2019

Get it Out of Your Brain!

I'm exhausted. All day, every day. I can get a full night sleep, drink water, eat healthily, and still feel warn out when my head hits the pillow each night. What I have found to help me the most has been doing a brain dump. This helps me when I am at my most stressed out, anxiety-filled, hanging on by a spray of dry shampoo days. For me, being the holder of all information becomes taxing and overwhelming. When I have too much in my head, I can't focus on anything and then in turn nothing gets done. I then end up crying on the floor about how overwhelmed I am.

I've used a billion systems- planners, calendars, to-do lists, post-its, journals, you name it I've tried it. None of it has worked as well for me and our family than Google Keep and Google Calendar. No one longer do I have to be the holder of all information. We both can share when it's Sprinkler Day or Mom's Night or Doctor's Appointments. It can be accessed from a phone, computer, tablet, anything.


I don't know about you, but  this situation used to be reoccurring in our house:

Bobby asks me to get him something at Target. I always forget what it is. I text him, he can't remember either. Then, I get home and we both realize he's out of shampoo. I then have to go back the next day. It's incredibly frustrating. 

If we don't make time to do it, we won't. Also, if we rely on our overly crowded minds to remember - we're not setting ourselves up for success. And I don't know about you, but I want to fricking succeed. I don't want to be warn out. I want to be clearheaded and present for the things that absolutely matter.

Do you keep trying to remember when the last time you washed the sheets? Yeah me too, put it in your Google Calendar for a repeating events. While you're at it, send it to me too. 

Do you forget where the Costcos are on your drive to Cincinnati? Blast, me too. Put it in a Google Keep list. 

Wanna remember all of those hilarious things your kids say? Create a list to write it down. 

Regret not talking to your grandma/best friend/college roommate enough. Put it in your calendar for once a month. 

Look, I know this isn't new. I know that there is probably something better. So here's the message that I want to share - get it out of your head. Parents have so much to remember every single day. We are drowning in this world of information. This life of taking care of everyone and everything. By ridding ourselves of the details we keep in our heads, we are allowing ourselves space to think, love, and care more about the real things that matter instead of what needs to be packed for school each Monday.

To make your Google Keep lists even easier to use I've created Google Keep Headers so you can find your lists even faster. Be sure to pin the lists that you use the most at the top. Nobody has time for scrolling to the end. If you love them, do this girl a favor and let the world know.

You've Got This!


Monday, August 26, 2019

Meal Planning Monday: Week of 8/25

It's another weird dinner week in our house - Bobby is traveling, going out to dinner, etc. I kept our normal themes but moved them around so that it made sense for everything that is going on. My grocery list is rather short this week because I dug around in our freezer looking for things that I need to use- a bag of shrimp, some stir fry vegetables, and some puff pastry.

Here's our dinner plan for this week. I'm also going to make this fancy Ham & Cheese Hot Pocket to put in the freezer while also using up some puff pastry and excess cheese.





Grocery List
Sunday
Instant Pot
Skyline Chili
Instant Pot/Crock Pot Recipe

Put Leftovers in Freezer
Onion
Spaghetti
Ground Beef
Cheese
Tomato Paste
Monday
Salad/Bowl Situation
Stir Fry
Veggies
Chicken
Rice Noodles
Sauce
Tuesday
Sheet Pan
Shrimp Burrito Bowl
Rice
Shrimp
Peppers
Onion
Lime
Wednesday
Take Out/Eat Out
Mrs. Murphy and Son’s Rib Night! 

Thursday
Find it in the Freezer! 
Spaghetti Casserole Bake (Freezer)


Take out of Freezer and put in Crockpot in morning. 
Salad
Friday
Quick and Easy 
(Make your own Nachos or Pizza)
Naan Pizza
Naan
Tomato Sauce
Mozzarella Cheese
Saturday
Snack Dinner
Cheese
Turkey
Apples
Hummus
Crackers 
Find it in the house

Saturday, August 24, 2019

Fun and Free Friday: Let's Go to a Regional Airport


Bo loves all things that move. Airplanes, trains, buses, cars, helicopters, the Red Line, and so much more. I'm sure I'll get in trouble for everything else that I missed. Last week, we missed the Air and Water show and Bo was really bummed to not see them up close and in person. That got me thinking, where can we go watch airplanes land!




On this Fun and Free Friday, let's go to a Regional Airport. Our kids LOVE airplanes. They actually love anything that goes.  Regional Airports are a great place to entertain our kids as they watch planes take off for and land. It's mesmerizing to watch! Sometimes there are playgrounds to  play on or restaurants. We've loved our time at  the Lunken Airport in Cincinnati. I've had visiting the Schaumburg Airport on  our list for the longest time. They have the most adorable restaurant called Pilot Pete's that looks to be more than a good time.

There are Regional Airports all around us, we often don't realize it. When I looked for one around us in Chicago, I found multiple options. I actually even found out that O'Hare Airport has a viewing place. Bring some snacks or a picnic lunch and you have a day made out of it.

If your kids aren't even into airplanes, they will still love this experience. I bet you could even sit at a  train station or a harbor or outside a construction site.

If you are in the Chicago area, here are some regional airports:

  • Schaumburg Airport
  • Waukegan National Airport
  • Chicago Executive Airport
  • Milwaukee International Airport
  • DeKalb Airport
  • Hinckley  Airport (They have mostly gliders!)
  • Rochelle Municipal Airport (Chicagoland Skydiving Center is here) 
When I went to look up places around Chicago, interestingly enough, this Wikipedia page has the best information about Airport Viewing areas.

What ideas do you have that your transportation loving kids enjoy?

You've Got This. 



Thursday, August 22, 2019

Kids Can Do Jobs

When I was a teacher, nothing in my classroom would have been cleaned or organized if it wasn't for the help of my students. Each student in my class had a job and because of that job, I had so much less to do. I didn't have to waste my time sharpening pencils or wiping down desks, because they did and frankly, loved it. Once kids in my classroom started having jobs, they cared more about the work that other students were doing too. They remembered the work that they put into their work, so they valued my work as well as their classmates' work as well. Classroom and Home jobs create community and build value to the tasks of others.

Recently, Bo has been wanting to help more and more around the house. I keep getting caught off guard when he asks, I don't have a specific task in mind that can actually help me. Because of this, I created a list of jobs that I can have on the read for when he asks. I thought I'd share them with you so you can use those cute, adorable kids help you too.

Kids Jobs

  • Putting away LaCroix cans in the fridge. (This takes Bo FOREVER because he wants all of the same color cans to be together.)
  • Cleaning highchair/booster seat (Added bonus if you give a spray bottle of water to help clean)
  • Putting toys away
  • Putting books away
  • Washing windows
  • Pairing socks
  • Putting silverware away from the Dish Washer
  • Taking the clothes out of the dryer into laundry basket
  • Feed dog/cat
I've also included a chore chart if you want that too. 








What jobs do your kids love to do around the house? (that actually help you out!)

You've Got This. 

Wednesday, August 21, 2019

Routines that Make You Happy and Whole

Yesterday was not my finest day. My to-do list was super long and I had tons that I needed to get done. Because of that, I skipped my morning walk and went straight to the grocery store. I rationalized that this would be the best way for me to get everything done that I needed to do efficiently during Elliott's morning nap. Skipping my walk did help me get my grocery shopping and meal prep for the day done, however my creative juices were lacking and I just couldn't get myself to finish any project. Today, my to-do list is still as long as ever.

I am a creature of habit. I have trained myself to do certain tasks in certain orders that when one thing is thrown off I am useless. For instance, our dryer is broken right now. It's been broken for two weeks. Because of this, I've not been able to do put in my small load each morning, switch to the dryer when I'm making breakfast, and then fold at night. Seems small, but because I can't do those things I've told myself that I should throw the routine out the window. My post calendar told me that I was going to share my my morning routine, but to be honest as I was writing I felt like a fraud. 

Because I can't have a repeat of yesterday. I woke up this morning ready to make things great and I thought I'd let you know how I make the most of each day. Enough time for everything- myself, work, chores, and my family. These three ideas and important parts of my routine came my good pal, Rachel Hollis. They've really helped me push the self-doubting and useless thoughts from my daily life.

Wake Up Early

I love to read. However, when I try to read at night I fall asleep immediately. So I now wake up early to read a couple of pages or chapters before I have to get things going. If you're having trouble finding time for your hobby or something that just makes you smile, try waking up a little bit early. Those 15-20 minutes will really change your morning and your whole day.

Move Your Body

You've gotta do something to move your body everyday. Yesterday when I skipped my walk, I didn't realize that I also skipped my time to think. It doesn't have to be a five mile run or a workout class, a walk around the block while listening to a podcast or music does the same thing for your mental health. I've just started listening to podcasts because I want to hear the end and I don't stop until it's over :) Of course, I've been loving Rachel Hollis' podcasts right now.

Start Each Day with Gratitude

Anyone else think "I'm the only one that replaces the toilet paper in the bathroom" or "No one would care if I stopped folding laundry"? When I'm not my best, these false statements are often the on repeat in my mind. The one thing that makes me my best is when I remember all of the amazing gifts I have been given each day. This practice comes from Rachel Hollis (I feel like this whole post is an ad for her. Goodness knows, she doesn't need me to promote her. But she does know what she is talking about). When I start from a positive moment everyday, it only goes up from there. Each morning, I write five very small pieces of gratitude that I have- a good conversation with a friend, the start of a new book, or a new inspirational song. Then, I add one piece of gratitude for each member of my family- Bo, Elliott, and Bobby. This whole practice makes me remember how lucky I am and how the lack of toilet paper doesn't really even matter.

So hopefully, this helps you think about what makes you happy and whole. Writing this today, reminded me how happy and whole these three parts of my routine. What do you included in your day that makes you whole and happy?

You've Got This.



Monday, August 19, 2019

Meal Planning Monday: Week of 8/19

Hey yo! It's Monday. Here's what we're eating this week. We have a busy week out of the house so it feels like I'm hardly cooking this week! Woot.

I don't know about you, but every Sunday I sit and think "What are We Eating for Dinner?" and I hate it. I started to give each night a different theme and helped me out so much. I was able think smaller. When Bo was first born, these categories were even too much for me. My categories were Italian, Mexican, Indian, eat out, order in, drive-through :)

Writing down what I need for each meal is helpful for me when I start making my list, so that I can check my pantry first.

I'm also making this Hashbrown Casserole this week because I found a HUGE container of sour cream that is about to go bad! This casserole is going to go in the Freezer for a night that I need to pull a dinner together without trying!





Grocery List
Sunday
Snack Dinner
Cheese Board
Cheese
Crackers
Fruit
Trail Mix
Hummus
Monday
Sheet Pan
Housewarming Dinner!

Tuesday
Salad/Bowl Situation
Mediterranean Bowl


Rice
Cucumber
Olives
Tomatoes
Chicken
Greek Dressing
Wednesday
Instant Pot
Big Ten Night at Wrigley

Thursday
Find it in the Freezer! 
Philly Cheese Steak Pasta Bake (Freezer)


Take out of Freezer and put in Crockpot in morning. 
Salad
Friday
Quick and Easy 
(Make your own Nachos or Pizza)
Sheet Pan Nachos
Tortilla Chips
Cheese
Sour Cream
Salsa
Corn 
Black Beans
Saturday
Take Out